annoying

I'm getting really annoying by what has happened these days. A football team with bad manner and morale; a young and energetic man with no job and gets nervous owing to the long waiting period of a good job; a girlfriend with no patience in understanding her mate.
Today we won over the so-called weakest team in the league by 2:1. Another game which we won over with a goal conceded in the early time. Poor communication, lack of trust, over-confidence and lack of thinking in making any movement could be the reason of the poor performance. While I'm not the loudest person in the team, I played in the second half and strive my very best to win the game. What can be done to improve? What I can do?
It's a long long holiday period in Hong Kong which is perfect to most people, but me as an unemployed and is waiting for the reply from Immd. Well, it's been 7 months, why couldn't I wait for another days or week? I have no idea but got really annoying when time is moving slowly without any news. Am I selected? When I'm going to be informed? How long do I have to wait longer? If people who were informed to do body check will be assigned to the first batch, which batch I will be assigned?
Tonight she complains again on my time allocation on football, work and other issues. I was supposed to say "I'm going back home" rather than "I can come to you if you want". Ha, I should admit that it's really a trap that I would be wrong no matter what answer I say. Do you understand me as a normal man who simply wants to play football, meet friends, stay at home sometime and work for living? You are important to me like all those other matters.....no priority.